Saturday, August 29, 2009 Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together. :D Labels: common sense
Sunday, August 23, 2009Yeayo! Just so you know, this may be quite a long post. Hahaha, kasi warning dulu eh. (: Wednesday, 19 Aug.  As you can see, went swimming with all these mangkuk(s) up here. Boleh dikatekn, last minute plan jugak laa kn. Tapi jadi jugak. Hahaha. Had lots of fun, since its been a while since I last went swimming laa kn. End of th day, most of us get sunburn & become darker. -.- But nvm laa kn, skali skale aje. Hehehe. Around tengahari, off we go. Th rest went back I think, while Shayna & I lepak-ed at my hse area there until malam. Sumpah Shayna mepek. Nyehahaha. Thursday, 20 Aug. Had a Pizza Hut treat from Shayna. Thanks so much makchicky! :D Hehehe. Lepak-ed at JP while Shayna did some mini shopping mopping. Then watched Hafiz, Syamil, Yany played th pool at Arena with Shayna. Around malam, off we go! Friday, 21 Aug.      Was supposed to meet Clone. But tak jadi since die maseh demam. So, just went ahead with FNO peep's plan. Went shisha-ing. My virgin experience laa kn. Hahaha. To cut short, it was really great laa eh. Hahaha, laen kali buat lagik laa eh. Kene ajak aku skali tau. Nyehahah. :D Had dinner together at Masjid Sultan's cafe there agaknye. And thanks to Shayna once again for footing th bill. Laen kali kite pnye turn eh. ^^ Overall, it has been a great week for me laa kn. Hahaha, atleast it can take my mind off smth. & oh, th rest of th gambar can be found pat facebook. Itupn after aku curik dprd Syarifah & upload pat my facebook. Nyehahaha. Take caring people. Happy 17th birthday to Taqimchi! :D Slow, baru skrg da nk 17. Hahaha. Anw, may you have all th wonderful stuffs in life. Last long with your bini okaaay, tabloid. Heheheh. ^^
Saturday, August 22, 2009 Are you happy? Cause Im not. Yeayo! I will update bile da dapat gambar. Tolong sabar menanti laa ye. Nyehahaha, chop guarantee tkkn menyesal pnye. Wakakaka. Okaay, mepek. Happy puase-ing to all th people yg puase. Yg tk puase, tkpe. Next year boleh puase. Itupn kalau kau tk mati cepat. Weehahaha! =D Labels: For fun
Wednesday, August 19, 2009Yeayo. You are so stupid. You fell into his trap. Once again, he broke you down. And then you felt like you are th stupidiest girl on Earth. And once again, you feel like he will be th person you hate th most in this world, yet you know that you can never hate him. You told yourself many times that you will never cry again because of him. But you just did yesterday. You are VERY naive. You are so vulnerable. You are so weak! You are soft-hearted. OMG, Where th hell is th old you?! How long are you going to go through all these? After all th tears, th anger, th frustration, th damage you may have done to yourself, you still have not had enough? Just when? For godness sake, WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO MAKE YOURSELF STOP GOING THROUGH ALL THESE? Stupid girl, you know you deserve better. You know you can do better. You know he dont treat you good. So why dont you just leave? Why cant you just leave everything behind? Where are your promises to yourself? You are seriously disappointing. Please, wake up will you? And do be strong, be strong, be strong! 8 months & still counting. You know you can make it, right? Please dont ever look back. You know all your efforts will all be wasted then. There is no such thing as love, between th two of you. And you know better right? Please be happy. Dont make yourself go through all these anymore. Youre very sick & tired of it. And obviously its draining you. Dont go through all these anymore okaay? Prove yourself. I know you are much stronger than this. Takecare.
Sunday, August 16, 2009LOVE VS INFATUATION There is a big difference between love and infatuation. Some people cant tell the difference, thinking they are in love but really it is a deep infatuation. Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another. Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time. Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits & pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream. Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away. Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying. But near or far, you know they are yours, and you can wait. Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing them." Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence." Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy. Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers. Infatuation lacks confidence. When they're away, you wonder if they're cheating. Sometimes, you check. Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy. Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction. Love is an upper. It makes you feel whole. It completes the circle. It fills the empty space in your heart. Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you don't have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning. The secret of our being is not only to live but to have something to live for. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * INFATUATION. Infatuation is a feeling; real love involves a commitment also. Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love, though, is love of devotion. Only the emotions are affected in infatuation, but in real love both the emotions and the will are involved. Next, a person "fall into" infatuation, but "grows into" real love. Guys, have you ever seen a girl who was so beautiful that you thought you'd faint? This is infatuation! It is based totally on physical attraction. Often you don't know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. Thus, infatuation is mostly biological. Also remember, never tell a girl you love her, unless you are willing to marry her. Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basically selfless. Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself and the feeling than it is in the other person. Real love is primarily interested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get.. Love unselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person. Lastly, infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love is strengthened by time and separation. This does not mean that there will be no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain in separation if you are truly in love. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * LOVE. Now you know what is infatuation, we will go on to discuss about the details of a true love. Love is patient. The word translated "patient" means to wait patiently for the fulfilment of expectations. When you have difficulty dating this girl and she does not want to come out, if you truly love her, you will not complain and blame her, you must look at the situation from her point of view - maybe she is having some problems which prevented her from coming out. You must react to it with patience and understanding. Next, have you ever met someone you liked so much that you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster? Sure you have! Love, however, is willing to give a relationship time to grow at a natural pace. It does not push but is willing to wait for the relationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties. Love is kind. Love seeks to encourage and build up others. It respects the feelings and emotions of others. It finds its greatest satisfaction in making others happy. Love is Not Jealous. Jealousy usually indicates an insecure and immature heart. Love wants the best for others, but jealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in the childish statement, "If he is going to talk to her, then he can just forget about me!" Often, one person wants to totally possess the other and to restrict her relationships with others. Love is not about bragging. Love is not a windbag and is not anxious to impress. Often a guy will brag to a girl, trying to impress her so that she will like him. A truly great person, however, does not need to exalt himself! Others will exalt him. Love is Not Arrogant. Love is not conceited, boastful, cocky, or stuck-up. Love, instead, is humble and has a servant attitude. Sometimes, a guy may come across to a girl with an "I can take you or leave you" attitude. His demeanour implies, "You ought to be thankful that somebody as neat as me is dating you." Of course, this is not love. Love always covers. This word cover means to pass over in silence, to keep confidential. Love is patient with the faults of others. It doesn't criticise and broadcast to the world the faults of others. Love is there even when it knows the other is not perfect. Love always Perseveres. Love always stands its ground and hold out. It will outlast anything. It will even love in the face of unrequited love. Real love will last though all sorts of trials, tribulations and stresses. Love is Not Provoked. This means that love has a long fuse. It does not become irritated and angry. It is not easily offended. Love does not seek its own. This is the heart of love. Love is other-centred rather than self- centred. Love says, "I love you, I want to give to you." Selfishness says, "I love you, I want you!" Love does not act unbecomingly. This means that love does not behave disgracefully, dishonourably or indecently. It does not embarrass others by its action. It is characterised by tact and sensitivity. This also means that love should have good manner. Be sure to do little things like opening doors for your girl, or offering her your arm when you walk together. Lastly, Love is forgiving. This is a MUST for a successful love story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and forget when his girlfriend is one hour late, he is not exhibiting love. Love doesn't hold grudges when it has been wronged. It doesn't remain resentful. Remember this: Love forgets past failures and sins. Labels: common sense
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